When I volunteered to coordinate registration for our Barnard alumnae event (last night), I did not realize it was scheduled for the same evening as my close friend's son's Bar Mitzvah celebration. By the time I realized the scheduling conflict, I had already taken on the responsibility for coordinating the whole event, including the hall, the caterer, etc. I love coordinating these events, even though it is a lot of work. I am a people person, and events like this are invigorating for me.
Thankfully, I had made it to the Bar Mitzvah celebration on Shavuot, which was really the main celebration. Still, I did not want to miss the evening celebration, especially the speaches by the Bar Mitzvah boy and his family (that's my favorite part!).
The alumnae event was scheduled to end an hour after the Bar Mitzvah celebrations were scheduled to begin. If the timing worked out, I imagined I could arrive at the Bar Mitzvah celebration not long after it began. Who was I kidding?
Of course, our event ran a bit longer than expected! And I am slow getting everything packed up!! I arrived at the Bar Mitzvah celebration almost two hours late! I was worried that I missed all the important parts.
I walked in, just as the second speach began. I actually made it on time!! (almost!)
I just missed the first speach by the Abba. To my good fortune, he posted his speach on his blog. Reading it is not quite as good as hearing it in person, but it is a close second.
I had such a good time at both events! It was after 11:00 pm, when I crashed. It was the very end of the Bar Mitzvah, and I was sitting with my friend and several other close friends, when a wave of exhaustion hit me like a ton of bricks. I had to go home and lie down, NOW!
Within seconds of arriving home, I was in bed, fast asleep.
Everyone was tired this morning. We all slept late.
My youngest was hours late to school My middle child decided to take the day off (I did not really approve, but his teacher gave his permission, so I let it go). And my eldest did not have school so that she could prepare for the math bagrut (national exam) tomorrow.
I will never get used to the Israeli system.
I spent several hours this morning talking with my son, and helping him plan out his morning, so it would be productive. He decided to learn several chapters of Navi (Prophets), since that was one of the classes he would be missing today. Of course, he also spent half an hour playing on the computer....
Meanwhile, I went to the hospital for my "pre-op" stuff -- registering for the radiosurgery and a quick MRI.
Again, who was I kidding???
The hospital registration was a beaurocratic nightmare, and the MRI was backed up by over an hour!
Thank God, my friend who accompanied me today, NHC, was really helpful! Especially when the doctor did not get the needle in the vein on her first attempt, and I was really scared and uptight when she tried again.
Between the registration, the delay, the needles, and everything else, I was pretty stressed out!
Did I mention that I did not cancel my swimming classes????
As soon as I finished the test, we ran out of there. I did not even wait to get the CD. (I will pick it up on Wednesday)
My friend took me straight home, so I could pick up my son and my car. My son waited outside, with the keys to my car; so, as soon as I got home, we drove off to the pool!
I teach the best kids! And their parents, God bless them, are so flexible and understanding. I arrived 20 minutes late for my first class. (Classes are only half an hour long!)
I ended up combining my first and second classes, and just made the lesson longer. My son also assisted me in teaching that class. I could write a whole post about how wonderful it was to work together with my son!
Then I taught my advanced swimmers class, and my son joined that class. It has been a while since he has been in class and he worked really hard. I was so proud of him. And so pleased to see that his form was still good!!
I love my advanced swimmers class. There are two or three different levels in that class and it is so challenging, but so great. I really get to push the kids to achieve more than they think they can do. Every once in a while, I have a lesson where I see that each kid has really made progress. Today was like that!
I was in such a great mood when I finished teaching. And I was so excited to have spent such quality time with my son. In theory, as soon as I got home, I could have gone straight to bed....
In theory..... but not in real life.
Believe it or not, my day did not end there. (Yes, I am a crazy woman!)
Tonight, Moshe and I attended the first workshop, in a series of 8, based on the book "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen, and Listen So Kids Will Talk." The series is sponsored, and hosted, by Zichron Menachem, so the workshop relates to the impact of having a family member with cancer. The other families all have kids who have or had cancer. We are the only family in the workshop with a parent who has cancer.
After the workshop, we had to stop by the drugstore.
By the time we got home, it was close to midnight.
It has been a long, emotionally draining, day!
Please daven (or send happy, healing thoughts) for RivkA bat Teirtzel.
With love and optimism,
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