Posted with the approval of my eldest daughter (the protagonist in this anecdote)
(the title was her idea!)
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Lately, my angel of a daughter has been having not-so-angelic fits.
I called her in, to talk with her about her recent behavior. She expressed her frustration as well.
She recognizes that sometimes our conflicts are a result of her fits. She also thinks that sometimes our conflicts are a result of my fits.
I acknowleged that she might be right.
She suggested : "I'll make with you a deal: You do everything I want, and I won't do fits."
We both had a good, healthy laugh at that!
Then, I suggested the opposite: that my daughter do everything I want, and I won't do fits.
She liked the first option better.
Please daven (or send happy, healing thoughts) for RivkA bat Teirtzel.
With love and optimism,
RivkA
Learn to See, Learn to Draw
18 hours ago
2 comments:
:D That is a great story!! It would be great if you could both get what you want all of the time.
This is a funny story, I remember many years ago as a newlywed I said to my husband "if you would just do what I told you we would never argue"......:-) Hugs
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