tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2782551808324372235.post6254691877114269724..comments2024-03-12T10:20:01.684+02:00Comments on Coffee and Chemo: What Would You Miss if You Did Not Have Cancer Anymore?RivkA with a capital Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09411034058195730044noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2782551808324372235.post-73465156853085900672009-01-21T00:42:00.000+02:002009-01-21T00:42:00.000+02:00I was once at a support group for wives of alcohol...I was once at a support group for wives of alcoholics/addicts. They asked what we "gained" from the situation. I was flabergastered. They said we wouldn't have choosen our spouse unless we gained from their dependency. I tried to say that I married my spouse BEFORE he became an addict. They found it hard to believe.<BR/> But you didn't choose.. don't see why they wouldn't believe you. Give me a normal life and I would love to give up the small "perks" I get from city hall due to my husband's condition....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com